A Recipe for Healing

Directions:
Be creative. Trust your instincts. Cry when you want to, laugh when you can. Choose the size pot that fits your loss. Season with memories; stir often.
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Thursday, July 15, 2010

Canada stories

-Sitting on a curb and eating a huge chunk of garlic/olive foccacia and mozzarella cheese. (Debatably the best five minutes of the trip.)
-Running through the rain in Montreal city, dodging under shop roofs to keep cover.
-Walking for hours in Toronto, unaware that it was the hottest day of the year.
-Fresh omeletes and coffee for breakfast at a busy diner.
-Thrifing at Value Village, putting Lancaster's thrift stores to shame.
-Watching Spain win in the World Cup at a local sports bar; Spanish fans beeping, waving flags, and running through the streets for hours to follow.
-French words, signs, accents---everywhere!
-A huge international market with fresh fruit samples everywhere: tomatoes, cucumbers, peaches, nectarines, pineapple. So refreshing to eat after eating camping food for so long.
-The best falafel of my life in Montreal, so worth the money.
-Mont Tremblant National Park, where we camped for two nights after hitting the cities: beautiful like nothing else. Huge mountains, hundreds of lakes, green everywhere. Could have easily stayed there for a week and have been totally content.
-CouchSurfing: staying with two awesome host families. So accommodating and friendly; taking us out at night and showing us around, even feeding us. Makes the world seem smaller to realize that literal strangers can become friends so quickly.

And, of course, the sibling memories.
Cracking up together over the stupidest things. Creating "fairy names" for ourselves. Getting the giggles on the way back from our 4 hour hike and not even being able to walk straight, we were so slap-happy. Cramming into a 4 person tent. The travelling gnome. Molly acting as our "translator." Enduring several rainy nights and thunderstorms (+wet sleeping bags, yikes.) Making awful food that somehow always tasted good. Singing to Lady Gaga on a crazy 12 hour drive home in a packed car...
Ok, so maybe we got a little tired of each other at times, but in retrospect it was so worth it.

So fun, so good, so many memories. Something I won't take for granted for a long time. Thanks to my parents for the trust and freedom, and thanks to Molly/Jacob/Emily for an unforgettable trip.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Happy news:

The gravestone has been in place at Micah's grave for about a month now. It turned out to meet all our expectations and more---even the business that engraved it was surprised how great it turned out. All-in-all, it has been a long process with a lot of emotions, what with the designing/perfecting/engraving and so on. To finally have it sitting at the grave is shocking but also really meaningful. It adds a sense of surreal-finality but it also feels right to finally have the spot officially marked.

I would post a picture but I don't think it would give it justice; it's just something you have to see in person. If anyone would ever like to see the grave, feel free to contact me, I'd love to take you--we can have a picnic! :)

The spot has become warm and alive with plants, flowers, and a butterfly house--nothing like a cold, gray, usual cemetery plot. It's very Micah-like, and that's all I could ask for.